Happy Thanksgiving!!

Happy Thanksgiving To You!

FALL...Its next to my favorite time of year (Summer) But I must say the Holidays in Fall are my Favorite.
I'm looking forward to our traditional Thanksgiving with my Parents, my Grandparent, my Sister and her family and my kids.
This year I feel very blessed and have a lot to be thankful for. My Divorce is almost at its one year mark. I know it sounds a little weird to be thankful for such a thing, but if you knew the man you would understand. I have had nothing but blessing after blessings enter my life this year. One. No one or myself is holding me back from growing into a better person and expanding myself. I feel I have more strength and courage and standing up for myself FEELS REAL GOOD! I'm thankful for my Family and friends who stand beside me. I'm thankful for my families health, and having them here with us this holiday season. I'm thankful for my strong kids who have been though a lot and still manage to do well in school. I'm Thankful for the roof over our heads and the food on our table every day. I'm so thankful for everyone I have come in contact with this year. You have brought nothing but JOY into my life. I'm thankful for meeting Paula Mccune, January 7th at a Networking event and introducing me to Damsel in Defense. Last but not least, Rick, for always being there for me and my kids and making me smile every day. :)

With this Holiday season upon us.  I want to remind you that there is a lot more crime out there at this time of year. Unfortunately it doesn't make a difference if your in a "Good Area" or it's during Daylight hours. Criminals find the Holiday season a great oppertunity to target people who are distracted by the hustle and bustal of the Holiday season.
 
Here are some safety tips for you while your out enjoying this time of year.
While Shopping;

• Shop during daylight hours whenever possible. If you must shop at night, go with a friend or family member.
• Dress casually and comfortably.
• Avoid wearing expensive jewelry.
• Do not carry a purse or wallet, if possible.
• Always carry your driver's license or identification along with necessary cash, checks and/or a credit card you expect to use that day.
  
• Even though you are rushed and thinking about a thousand things, stay alert to your surroundings.
• Avoid carrying large amounts of cash. If it's all you use, don't keep it all in one place.
  
• Pay for purchases with a check or credit card when possible.
• Keep cash in your front pocket.
• Notify the credit card issuer immediately if your credit card is lost, stolen or misused.
• Keep a record of all of your credit card numbers in a safe place at home.
• Be extra careful if you do carry a wallet or purse. They are the prime targets of criminals in crowded shopping areas, transportation terminals, bus stops, on buses and other rapid transit.
• Avoid overloading yourself with packages. It is important to have clear visibility and freedom of motion to avoid mishaps.
• Beware of strangers approaching you for any reason. At this time of year, con-artists may try various methods of distracting you with the intention of taking your money or belongings.

  Also, When loading our vehicle try not to have your back turned so you can't see someone approaching you and If you plan to drop off your packages and heading back in to do more shopping, consider moving you car to another location. Criminals will notice you just loaded up you car with gift you spent you hard earned cash on, and burglarize your vehicle or worse, steal the wholes thing.

While Driving;

•  Avoid driving alone or at night.
• Keep all car doors locked and windows closed while in or out of your car. Set your alarm or use an anti-theft device.
• If you must shop at night, park in a well-lighted area.
• Avoid parking next to vans, trucks with camper shells, or cars with tinted windows.
• Park as close as you can to your destination and take notice of where you parked.
• Never leave your car unoccupied with the motor running or with children inside.
• Do not leave packages or valuables on the seat of your car. This creates a temptation for thieves. If you must leave something in the car, lock it in the trunk or put it out of sight.
• Be sure to locate your keys prior to going to your car.
• Keep a secure hold on your purse, handbag and parcels. Do not put them down or on top of the car in order to open the door.
• When approaching and leaving your vehicle be aware of your surroundings.
• Do not approach your car alone if there are suspicious people in the area.
• Ask mall or store security for an escort before leaving your shopping location.

Source: LAPD Crime Prevention Section

 I hope all of you who are traveling this holiday season arrive safe and sound to and from your destination.  Remember to Stay Aware of your surroundings, Trust your Gut Instincts and don't take anything for granted it crime could happen to anyone.

Let me know if you have a safety tip that you use while your out.


OK! Ready to hear about our Holiday Bundle?  I LOVE this! I'm really hoping we start to carry the cat claws after this special is over. We'll see. :0)

Have a Safe and Sassy Thanksgiving Holiday!
Valerie, Your Damsel Pro
www.damselpro.com

Call Me Crazy

I Hope everyone had a safe and enjoyable Halloween without to many tummy aches. My kids must have been sick to start because they were not much into trick or treating this year. which is sad for me because I don't have any candy bags to raid. Grown kids sure take the fun out of the Holidays. ;-)  I'll be better prepared next year.

So today Corporate sent out a message that they fixed the shipping rates for a win win for everyone.
I think they did a great job. It started out per weight of the Package, which would come out to $11-$14,  to a flat rate of $7 for a temporary fix. We had some complaints with the orders that were only $10.00. So... In an effort to find a permanent solution that works for customers, our teams and the Home Office, effective today, November 1, our new shipping policy will be a $5 flat fee PLUS 5% of the subtotal (pre-tax/shipping) of the customer's order. This means a customer with a $20 order (before shipping and tax) would pay $6 shipping total.
Also, starting today our Domestic Violence bundle Special for October is over and our New November Special is in Place. Check it out!

Now this is a DEAL!!
For those who know our "Call me Crazy" Stun gun is $95.00 so you will be saving $35!! Wow!! I'm getting a Black one for myself and maybe the Pink for Mom.
Our 2.0 features a new design with an improved display, brighter pink, black buttons and a BUILT IN RECHARGER! Still 4.5 Million Volts and Led Flashlight.  (my up-line mentioned last night, to carry our Stun Guns out trick or treating for the flash light.  Why didn't I think of that!) a great marketing tool too.

Well...Its time to pick up my son from school. If you have any questions or would like to place an order fell free to email me at stunningdefense@gmail.com and I would be happy to help you out.

Have a great day!!

Halloween Safety Tips for Adults

  I wanted to do a quick post today sense Its Halloween Weekend, So I'm stealing a post that has been on my web page for a few weeks and post it here for you. There is a lot of info but there are some great pointer here that we sometimes forget and for some of us,  it hasn't even crossed are mind.

Parents of trick-or-treating kids can get so caught up in the fun themselves that they might forget some simple safety ideas that could keep everyone out of trouble. Having a fun and safe Halloween will make it all worth while!
If you take your kids to a sponsored event, like a safe Halloween thrown by your church or community center, make sure to keep an eye on them at all times. Even though it seems less dangerous, you are still in a strange environment full of people that you don't know. All it takes is a minute with your back turned to find your child gone.
Below are more common sense tips that can help adults keep their kids safe.

As bad as it sounds, this is just a fact of life now. Get on the internet and check your local state website for sex offenders. Almost every state has one, just do a search for your state sex offender site. Look up your zip code and it should have a list of registered offenders in your area that includes street addresses. Make sure that your kids stay away from these houses!

Know the route your kids will be taking if you aren't going with them. Let them know that they are to check in with you every hour, by phone or by stopping back at home. Make sure that they know not to deviate from the planned route so that you always know where they will be.
 
Trick or treating isn't what it used to be. In most cities it's not safe to let kids walk the streets by themselves. Your best bet is to make sure that an adult is going with them. If you can't take them yourself, see if another parent or two can.
 
Help your young child pick out or make a costume that will be safe. Make sure that it's fire proof or treated with fire retardant. If they are wearing a mask of any kind,  make sure that the eye holes are large enough for good peripheral vision.
 
Know what other activities a child may be attending, such as parties, school or mall functions. If they are going to be at a friends home, get the phone number and make sure that you've met the parents.

Make sure you set a time that your kids should be home by. Make sure they know how important it is for them to be home on time or to call immediately if something happens and they are going to be delayed.

Kids will be kids. Explain to kids of all ages the difference between tricks and vandalism. Throwing eggs at a house may seem funny but they need to know the other side of the coin as well, that clean up and damages can ruin Halloween for everyone. If they are caught vandalizing, make them clean up the mess they've made.

Some sick people find Halloween a great night to hurt cats. Explain to your kids that animal cruelty of any kind is not acceptable. Kids may already know this on their own but stress the point that it's not acceptable behavior. Make sure that they know that harming animals is not only morally wrong  but punishable by law and will not be tolerated.
 
Serve your kids a filling meal before trick or treating and they won't be as tempted to eat any candy before they bring it home for you to check. Check your local grocery store or craft store for Halloween cook books full of tasty treats on a horror theme for both kids and adults.
 
Make sure that if your child is carrying a prop, such as a scythe, butcher knife or a pitchfork, that the tips are smooth and flexible enough to not cause injury if fallen on. Make sure that costumes won't get in the way when they are walking, which could cause them to trip.

Teach your kids about not getting into strangers cars or talking to strangers, no matter what the person says to them. Explain to them as simply as you can that some adults are bad and want to hurt children, that they should never go into a house that they don't know, get into a car or go anywhere with a stranger. Also, tell them what to do should this happen, to scream as loud as they can to draw attention and to run away as fast as they can to someplace safe.
 
Be sure to show your children know how to cross a street properly. They should always look both ways before crossing the street and should only cross at corners or crosswalks. Make sure that if you have more than one child, they know to take the hand of the younger child when they cross a street.
 
Make Halloween a fun, safe and happy time for your kids and they'll carry on the tradition that you taught them to their own families some day!
 
Please have a safe and fun Halloween.

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Autumn

Were did The time Go?
It's been awhile, not that I didn't have anything to say but I don't have a computer to keep up with the Social Media World, so for the past month I try to sneak in time on my kids lap top.  ( shhhh ) Actually, they're pretty good about sharing it, they just need less homework! ( right... They would love that!)

Fall has arrived, though there has been plenty of Summer like days still. Like this week its been in the 90's here but I noticed today that the trees are starting to do their thing and change from their green leaves to the beautiful autumn colors I love so much.  This is a favorite time of year for me with the fall festivals and craft boutiques. I love seeing all the creative gifts and items people make and sell. I always walk out of there feeling like I need to run to Micheal's Craft Store and start crafting with my Daughter, and a lot  of the time I do. ( Run to Micheal's that is)

   I have one more festival this month in Littlerock, CA  before the real Holiday Season is upon us. I'm sure we will have a a "close date" on our Christmas shipping, meaning the last day to order gifts in time for Christmas, but I haven't received any word to when that will be but I will have it up as soon as I do.
 On that note we do have a New Item.  :-)  "Hot Lips" Stun Gun is now in Pink too! It's very pretty. Here I'll show you.  :-) 

Oooo Pretty!! :-) I like it.  And notice the new packaging....Hmmm Nice huh? We are moving up! Which brings me to another topic. Damsel in Defense is now 1 year new and we have over 1,000 reps. in fact I'm not sure if they are even counting anymore. They have been so busy that they have moved to a bigger location to hold more product and help get their shipments out faster and easier. Hooray for everyone!

Our New Home Office Building!

Well...I'm off to pick up my son from School and finish up with the rest of my day. Trader Joe's and Petsmart for Dragon food. (Bearded Dragon)  I hope everyone is staying safe. Remember,r if you have kids that will be out Trick or Treating to visit my web page for Halloween Safety Tips.

Stay Safe and Sassy!

New Web Site

Hi! I hope everyone has been happy and healthy. I'm sure we are all staying busy with fall fast approaching. Schools are back in session, summer festivals are coming to an end but Fall Festivals are ready to start and Holiday shopping is around the corner and a can't wait!

I'm now back to work at the school district, working with a Autistic child in a middle school this year and I'm doing sub work as well. My kids are in their new schools and have got the swing of things. While I'm sill trying to get used to all the traffic to all three, sometimes four schools. 8-p

I'm glad to say Thursday night on the square is over, as much fun as I have had, I meet so many great people and had great sales I am looking forward to the Holiday Season, stuffing Pepper Spray and Stun Guns in my and your family and friends stockings. (If they don't already have one, if so, the "Road Trip" and the "Holla At Me" is a must have for everyone on your list.) and all the fun Personal Protection parties.

I still have a lot of openings for parties through now to holidays but call or email me soon so you can get the date you want. Also tell your guys what you want for your stocking! This isn't all too girly that a guy can't have his own party. it will help him and his buddy's for their gift giving during the holidays
Another fun idea would be to have a Halloween teamed party while learning to protect yourself, or a Thankful your in my life, please protect yourself party. What ever you want to do, make it fun or make it simple, I don't care, just protect yourself and spread the word that Damsel in Defense is about EQUIPPING, and giving women access to products that can protect them. EMPOWERING women to protect themselves. EDUCATING women by providing them with resources to back up their purchase with self-defense training

If you haven't seen Damsel in Defense's new Web site they have set up for us, you must take a look at it. It's Hot! Now you can order though my site, have it go directly to our headquarters, and shipped directly to you for a flat rate shipping fee of $7.00! No more middle man (Me!) You can even sign up as a Damsel Pro right from my site and I am so looking forward to our online party feature coming next month. It will be so much easier to have your party online for brochure parties or for the ones that can not make it to your fun parties you have at home.

Stay Safe and Sassy!
Your Damsel Pro Jr. Mentor
Valerie Stone
at www.damselpro.com
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Lots of news!

First, Congratulations goes to Stephanie Gregory for winning the Party Plan Diva Giveaway. You should be receiving your items any day now.

Second, We are now up to 900 Nationwide reps and they're signing up new reps by the dozen. We have so many new and exciting things coming our way, like our new rep website. You will be able to order and have it shipped straight to you!  And sign up to be a rep right on the website, no more faxing over the apps hopping they get there, especially after driving down to Kinko's and paying for it, with you credit card info on it. =-/               Of course the website will make it easier for me to do business as well.

We also have a new product coming out if you haven't seen it yet on my web site or my Facebook Page.

A full two ounces of protection and an easy to spot glow in the dark nozzle. Just like every other Damsel In Defense Pepper Spray, our Take 2 offers the HOTTEST 18% OC pepper and a complimentary UV Dye to any attacker. Five colors options, $15 each.

I've been so busy this month with my kids Birthdays (yes, Both in Aug) I started work again.  I work at the Westside School Dist and I'm taking a double shift till they can hire someone else. and I'm still there and the "Thursday Night on the Square" in Palmdale. I'll be there another two Thursdays.

I will be in Littlerock at Penny Lynn Crafters Village this weekend for their big grand opening fair from 8 to 7 both Sat. and Sun. Then you will find me at KOA Thousand Trails campground in Acton  for the Koch's car and bike show Aug. 26th

So, there is the new news. I'd  better get to my kids now. It's about bed time. 


Have a great evening and an Fantastic Week!
Valerie